About Ramyaa
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Hello
I am Ramyaa. I was born and brought up in Molakalmuru, a small town in Chitradurga district in Karnataka. My father Mohandas (Appa) ran a silk saree business – wholesale and retail – and I grew up around looms, around bolts of Kanjivaram and Molakalmuru silk, around the rhythm of weddings and festivals that decided which sarees came out of which cupboards. The importance of festivals was not something I had to be taught. It was the air I breathed.
Our household was a tight one – Amma (my mother Anuradha), Appa, my sister Rashmi, my brother Srinivas (we call him Seenu), me, and my Basavaraju mama who lived with us. Six of us, in one house, with festivals that filled every corner of it. I went to school in Davanagere and Bellary – two more Karnataka towns I still feel connected to.
Most of what I know about traditions – which silk for which occasion, which sweet for which festival, which prayer for which day – came from Amma. She did not sit me down to teach me. She let me watch, then asked me to help, then quietly stepped aside when I was ready to lead. Rashmi and I learned the same way: by being there, by helping, by asking when we did not understand.
Today I am a housewife in Bangalore. I take care of my child and my husband Ganesh, run our home, and find pockets of time to write for ramyaaganesh.com. The idea for the site came in a small moment – I was looking for the details of a particular vratham (Venkateshwara Swamy Vratha, if you must know) and the information was scattered across half a dozen sites, none of them complete, most of them written for someone who already knew. I thought: this should not be this hard. If I am struggling to find it, other women must be too. Let me write it down properly, with the prompts and the photos and the explanations someone like me would have wanted, and put it somewhere everyone can find it.
That is what this site is. A place to put the answers down – carefully, honestly, for the woman who is looking. I think there is something quietly important about this kind of work. When we share our rituals clearly, we keep them alive. We correct our own understanding in the process of explaining it to someone else. And the small acts of writing things down, asking the right questions, and respecting what came before – they make the larger society stronger, in ways that are easy to dismiss but hard to replace.
Thank you for being here.
Why this site exists
This site is built around a simple idea: traditions stay alive when they are explained clearly, by someone who actually knows them, in a language you can read on your phone.
For too long, the only options for South Indian women looking for guidance were either inherited knowledge from elders (which not everyone has access to), Sanskrit-heavy temple websites (often inaccessible), or generic Indian lifestyle blogs (rarely specific enough). We built ramyaaganesh.com to be the resource we wished we had.
We are not here to lecture. We are not here to gatekeep. We are here to help.
What you will find here
We write about four things:
Festivals and rituals. Practical guides to South Indian festivals, vrats, and life-stage ceremonies. From Varalakshmi Vratham for first-timers to Choroonu for your baby abroad. Step-by-step, with the why behind each step.
Sarees and jewelry. Identification, styling, and care for traditional South Indian textiles and ornaments. Real Kanjivarams. Temple jewelry. What to wear to a Tamil wedding when you are the cousin’s wife.
Heritage recipes with stories. Family recipes told with the story attached. Bisi bele bath the way Amma made it. Mysore pak that does not crumble. Sambar powder from scratch, the way one Tamil Brahmin family has done it for generations.
Modern-life cultural questions. The questions you Google and find no good answer for. Teaching your American-born child about Diwali. Hosting a gruhapravesham abroad. Tamil baby names that are traditional but not old-fashioned.
Who this is for
This site is for the modern woman engaging with South Indian tradition. Whether you grew up in Chennai or Connecticut, Bangalore or Birmingham, you are welcome here.
We think most about the woman who grew up watching her mother light the lamp every evening, and who now wonders how to do it in a New Jersey apartment without setting off the smoke alarm. The woman planning her first Pongal as a married daughter-in-law. The woman whose Amma just stopped picking up the phone, and who realizes she should have been writing things down.
If you are any of those women, you are home.
What you will not find here
We are deliberate about what we do not write about, so that what we do write about can be excellent.
You will not find:
- Daily Instagram reels or trending dance videos. We are a publication, not a content factory.
- Get-rich-quick schemes, miracle products, or pseudo-spiritual advice.
- Generic Indian content. We are specifically South Indian, and within that, we lean on what we actually know.
- Hot takes on religious controversy. We share tradition; we do not pick fights.
How to connect
The best way to keep up with new articles is the newsletter. One short letter, every Friday morning, with the new piece and one note from me.
You can also reach us at hello@ramyaaganesh.com.
For partnership inquiries, please see our Contact page before reaching out.